Thursday, September 14, 2006

I COULDNT HELP IT - ONE MORE POST

Posted at mentalblog (Premeditated advice on Kenmore Square ) - Go check out this thread! (Special thanks to a friend for directing me to it).

...I finally 'get it':

The evil frum society should embrace the new BTs as one of their own and immediately force their daughters to marry the new-comers, while the BTs should be ‘living with their supportive families', attending 'the best public schools in the country' and - not to forget - 'studying on the side'!
We are also going to make sure to deride any suggestion that said BT might need to go through some process (gasp!) of immersion into the society he wants to join. And we will make sure that instead of addressing the substance of the various ‘integration/mainstreaming’ suggestions, we will nitpick on words we do not know how to use. (faruq, this was definitely ‘poetry’)

berl, crown heights 09.04.06 - 11:33 am Link: #

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

RAMBAM YEIMI?

Special thanks to Hirshel Tzig for this submission:

Posted Tuesday, August 15, 2006 4:19:58 PM by Berl, at Circus Tent (The Rambam Yeimi thread)

berl, crown heights said...

What do you people know? OK, it's true that the Rambam himself says in his hakdomoh to seifer hayad that this sefer was written so that "you shall need no other seifer”. But the Rambam was a frenk, after all. Who do you thinks knows better how the Rambam should be studied - some frenk or a litvishe rosh yeshiva? As the famous joke says וואס פארשטייט א פרענק אין רמב"ם ?

Tuesday, July 11, 2006

PARTING WORDS

Posted here yesterday (Thread: The rest is up to you):


At 4:32 PM, berl, crown heights said...

While I agree with ESOB in terms of better time usage for Mekushor, I am left wondering – who in the world thinks they actually have a stake in the publication of my comments?

Actually, I have a pretty good hunch who that might be...
So let them get this: my writings belong only to me – you (and you know who you are) have no say in this matter.

* * *
As to the future of the Berl Yeimi:

The overwhelming majority of people that I've heard from tell me that I should give this undertaking up (and use my time better). I admit that they have a point - but I say, "All work and no play make Mekoshor a dull fellow."
Nevertheless, I have decided to bring it to a close. The Berl Yeimi will live on - but you'll just have to do the work yourself.
Zol enk alle habben lange, gutte, gezunte, chassidishe yohrin.
:-)

- Mekushor

Monday, July 10, 2006

THE REST IS UP TO YOU.

I was recently asked to stop publishing the Berl Yeimi. Since it all began (with a joke and a dare) I've had a good time with it (even if it takes more of my time that I had expected), so I ask the readers:
1. Keep it going? Please state your opinion & reason.
2. Shut it down? Please state your opinion and reason.
I await the readers response before I decide.
- Mekushor

Friday, July 07, 2006

THE SHLICHUS CRISIS

Posted at mentalblog.com (thread: Simon Jacobson as a free marketer)


...My interest in the definition of the "head shliach" institution is not academic - I know many sincere yungeleit who are unsuccessfully looking for shlichus positions for years! In this situation, yeshivas simply can't keep telling kids that shlichus is the only thing to aspire to, when in reality relatively few of them will ever be able to "go on shlichus"! Most of our kids are by design not trained to do anything else, so as a father I am, naturally, very worried. Simon's free-market thesis appeals to me, but his ideas do not seem practical under the current feudal "head shliach" set-up...

berl, crown heights 04.04.05 - 4:49 pm / Link: #


...in this we have become no better than the misnagdim - every boy there (bar the really retarded ones) thinks he is going to grow up a "rosh yeshiva", every girl - a wife of "Rabbi Akiva". But today we are now no better, just different terminology for the same ugly notion.

:-(

berl, crown heights 04.04.05 - 6:11 pm / Link: #

Thursday, July 06, 2006

YIDDISH

Posted at mentalblog.com (thread: mendy-says):

Q: Berl, at what point does a usage of a Yiddish word become accepted enough to be "legalized"?
(ex.: זעהן-זען, איהם-עם etc)

A: First, I have to make it abundantly clear that I am not a grammarian of the Yiddish language and never have purported to be. That is why I am careful to phrase my musings on Yiddish usage in form of questions to the imaginary "yiddishisten".

With that disclaimer out of the way, let me say this:

1. It seems to me that the examples you site pertain more to the realm of spelling, for which, strictly speaking, there are no real (as in "old and established") rules. To the best of my limited knowledge on this subject, all Yiddish spelling rules are very recent conventions. (Earlier, on [mentalblog], we had a discussion on the old phonetic spelling of Yiddish). To me, the examples you site are merely different spellings of the same words that reflect different pronunciations of those words in different dialects. That should be always be "legal", regardless of what the spelling conventions and dictionaries say.

2. Now to the "meat" of you question. You ask: "at what point does a usage of a Yiddish word become accepted enough to be "legalized"?"
Given that Yiddish is a זשארגאן it would seem that כשמו כן הוא - it should have no "rules" at all. So if Yiddish speakers use a particular word – it should automatically be "legal". However, there is a serious wrinkle to that approach. In year 2005 we are not dealing with very many real native Yiddish speakers. Even the dwellers of "Williamsburg rat holes" - that do speak Yiddish to each other in their daily lives – speak a crude, simplified version, one that ignores gender subtleties and is void of rich old idiomatic expressions. With the young folk that speak Yiddish in CH – it is even worse. To anyone, that spent time listening to real old-world Yiddish speakers, it should be very clear that, at best, we are talking about a crude slang that is based on Yiddish. That being the case, it would seem to me that gender, case and conjugation mistakes commonly made by contemporary Yiddish speakers should not be viewed as acceptable "usage of the word".
berl, crown heights 06.21.05 - 10:29 am #

That was too long. Needs clarity. The answer depends on what the goal is.
If the goal is to be linguistically correct, then whatever the contemporary speakers do is, by definition, legitimate. If however, the goal is to preserve the language of the Jews of Eastern Europe - then it is not.
[If the goal is to be an ivri - to be "different" then the subtleties of old Yiddish should not matter. But I know for a fact that R’ Gish speaks a beautiful old Yiddish and is somewhat fanatical about it. Go figure.]
berl, crown heights 06.21.05 - 10:48 am #

And from another thread (Oy! for Reb Maishe, the Alter Rebbe’s son):

Who said Yiddish was dead?
here we have an exchange that is a fine specimen of New Yiddish - a.k.a."Yinglish". Thank G-d, lo almon Yisroel!
berl, crown heights 07.22.05 - 7:28 pm #

Wednesday, July 05, 2006

LUBAVITCH, IT'S THE IDEAL WE CARE SO MUCH ABOUT: A CONVERSATION (PART 2 OF 2).

Posted at mentalblog.com (Thread: Housecleaning rules ):

As to “lubavitch”, I have seen the real thing, I have seen men who were giants of spirit.
Because of that I know "it works", not because of any theory, supposition, or hope. At the end, we are not even talking about the same thing when we say “lubavitch”.
berl, crown heights 10.16.05 - 11:55 pm #

But Berl, Lubavitch is a real, talking, breathing thing. It consists of its people and its mosdos, its leaders, its culture, etc -- not some oved in the back of a beis medrash somewhere (who anyway would be considered by many to be a looser).
Boruch der ayzel 10.17.05 - 12:00 am #
to me 'lubavitch" is only a description of an ideal, nothing more. everyone else must pay cash! dos darf men oich iberkayen?
berl, crown heights 10.17.05 - 12:05 am #

B.D.A., "OVED in the back of a beis medrash somewhere (who anyway would be considered by many to be a LOOSER"), I like the pun, עובד – אובד :-)
faruq 10.17.05 - 12:05 am #

faruq, the pun may work more than you realize - check out Iben Ezra on arami oived ovi...
berl, crown heights 10.17.05 - 12:07 am #

רשב״ם works better for me...
faruq 10.17.05 - 12:09 am #

well, according to IE, the beginning of the verse speaks of the same man as the end, so I like it better. Also, IE is the one who explains the verb oived :-)
berl, crown heights 10.17.05 - 12:12 am #

though I understand your affinity to Rashbam as well, it is more familiar to call Avrohom the arami
berl, crown heights 10.17.05 - 12:15 am #

berl, true, but Avrohom the First resonates better with me :-)
faruq 10.17.05 - 12:15 am #
[And] Berl you are talking about the ideal. We are all here because we love that ideal. Others are forced, however, on a day to day basis, to contend with thereality.
Boruch der ayzel 10.17.05 - 12:12 am #
Berl is in a murky state. On hand he feels a fanatical partisanship of the movement, on the other hand he denys that any individual is bound to and by the movement or it’s institutions. This is simply crazy.
Tzemach Atlas Homepage 10.17.05 - 12:10 am #
TA, I would rewrite the sentence: “On the one hand he feels a fanatical affinity to the ideals of the movement, on the other hand he denies that any individual is bound by the movement as such or its institutions.”Would that edit job keep me out of the loony bin?
berl, crown heights 10.17.05 - 12:26 am #

[TA wrote:] "if you truly only cared for the ideals you would not get all insulted every time someone attacks the movement as such."
maybe caring for ideals only is, itself, only an ideal for me thus far...
berl, crown heights 10.17.05 - 12:46 am #

"maybe caring for ideals only is, itself, only an ideal for me thus far..."

berl, gezunte makifin debina!
faruq 10.17.05 - 12:51 am #

A dank far alle vunchen, vechein lemar
berl, crown heights 10.17.05 - 12:53 am #

Tuesday, July 04, 2006

PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY: A CONVERSATION (PART 1 OF 2)

Originally posted at mentalblog.com (thread: Housecleaning rules), regarding the issue of the tragic incident involving a Lubavitcher bochur beating the Rebbe’s elderly sister-in-law:

I vividly remember Rashag standing on the bima in 770 on the Monday after the beating calling her name out for a mishebeirach. I was horrified and disgusted by that beating and never-ever encountered anyone here who felt differently. I therefore took great offence at Schneur's audacious call to the general Lubavitch population for a 'cheshbon nefesh' for that event.
Now, if you or Schneur know something about specific people being somehow responsible, then address those specific people by their names. Or are we now officially in age of ‘collective responsibility’?
berl, crown heights 10.16.05 - 2:51 pm #

People often call a group to an account even though individual members of the group always have their own unique opinions. The fact is that Lubavitch never done the followings:
1. Publicized and internalized the full horror of what happened.
2. Did chebon nefesh about the atmosphere of hysteria that lead to the event. Let’s not open the case of the two officers of the Rebbe who are widely perceived to have contributed to the hysteria, some say even mislead the Rebbe in this regard.
3. Did some seder of atonement as a group for the crime that was committed against the Rayatz’s daughter.
4. Held the perpetrator accountable instead of arranging his quick escape by the officer of the organization.
Tzemach Atlas Homepage 10.16.05 - 3:42 pm #
“People often” do wrong things, that is not a good enough reason [for you] to do something, is it? You can only “call to account” those that did something wrong and no one else. Period.
berl, crown heights 10.16.05 - 7:42 pm #

What do [you] feel I have to 'atone' for in this regard?
It is easy to call on faceless 'group' to do something. It’s a whole other story when you are forced to realize that you are talking about many 'berls' who did nothing wrong in this case in machshovoh, dibbur umaaseh.
berl, crown heights 10.16.05 - 8:24 pm #

You certainly accept the fact the movement does have a face when you speak about
the good of Lubavitch.
Tzemach Atlas Homepage 10.16.05 - 9:08 pm #
I strenuously object to your impression that I feel entitled to “take credit for the good of my group even though I personally had nothing to do with it”. I might be happy and proud for things Lubavitch has done, but I absolutely feel that 100% of the credit goes to the doers and no one else. I am conversely not at all prepared to take any blame for someone else’s wrongdoings. This is the key pointing this particular argument. This is not an attempt to defend anyone who is guilty, but a demand that an accusing finger be pointed strictly at those individuals.
berl, crown heights 10.16.05 - 9:15 pm #

Inside my head I really do not think of a movement with “a face.”
I think of “Lubavitch” as derech hoaveidoh or the Rebbeim and teiras hachassidus. And then there are individual Chassidim, the people.
berl, crown heights 10.16.05 - 9:20 pm #

Berl, when Ron[ald] Reagan said that Russia was an "evil empire", he certainly did not refer to many of the good people in Russia. But the statement was perfectly true. When Schneur or I said that it was an evil moment for Lubavitch why do YOU get insulted? Can you accept the fact the movement has a face that is not your own?
Tzemach Atlas Homepage 10.16.05 - 8:45 pm #

"People are part of Lubavitch of their own free volition." This is a naive approach to the realities and dynamics of any large movement.

You remind me of the types I encountered in Russia many times, the ideologues of communism who believed that Lenin was well intentioned, theory of communism perfect if only allowed to be executed as it was intended. They ideas of communism were true if not for the “individuals” who messed it up.
So you know when a President wins with 51% of the vote they call it a landslide. You can gage this (beating) issue by polling the average Lubavitchers about what do they know and what do they think. The result is not in doubt; hence the accusatory finger at the movement is not misplaced, because this result is indicative of the lack of cheshbon nephesh on the part of the movement that trickled down to the majority of it’s members. As they are manipulated within the totalitarian group without basic glasnost. In the end it is all about glasnost.
Tzemach Atlas Homepage 10.16.05 - 9:35 pm #

The ideologues of communism who believed that Lenin was well intentioned, theory of communism perfect if only allowed to be executed as it was intended.

Mimmoh nafshoch:

1. if it is the belief in anything being "perfect" that is always problematic, then you can't accept such an attitude toward anything at all, including the ten commandments, Moses, and G-d Himself.
2. if, however, you can accept such an attitude as sometimes legitimate, then comparing every such case with die-hard communists because of this similarity simply does not wash.

As to “lubavitch”, I have seen the real thing, I have seen men who were giants of spirit. Because of that I know "it works", not because of any theory, supposition, or hope. At the end, we are not even talking about the same thing when we say “lubavitch”.
berl, crown heights 10.16.05 - 11:55 pm #

Sunday, July 02, 2006

IN DEFENSE OF THE "FFB" (SHIDDUCHIM FOR MIKUROVIM - PART 3 OF 3)

Posted at mentalblog.com (Thread: Baaley Tshuva - worse than sephardim)

P A R T - T H R E E:

1. BTs are discriminated not in any institutional way, but as a natural human response to "immigrants". The level of this discrimination is, therefore, directly proportional to the level of BTs cultural integration: A man who will gladly have his daughter marry a BT lamdan that is also fluent in Yiddish, will not even consider a BT that breaks his teeth over kiddush.

2. BTs attitude to frum natives lacks humanity. That is a first step toward integration and mutual acceptance.

3. BTs, like most humans, make all the "sacrifices" to better their own lives. No amount of whining will change that.
berl, crown heights 10.07.05 - 8:39 am #

[A commenter wrote]: "My theory is that FFB's and BT"s come from opposite places: While growing up as a FFB means maintaining the status quo, becoming a BT means rebellion against the status quo...” …bla, bla, bla... FFB's have the Torah knowledge and can talk the talk but, can they walk the walk?

I also made it quite clear that in my view your "attempt to analyze the sociological differences between FFB's and BT's" is a bunch of hateful drivel.
berl, crown heights 10.08.05 - 9:34 pm #

[And] this is [exactly] the kind of drivel I was referring to here in my point #2 here:
BTs attitude to frum natives lacks humanity. That is a first step toward integration and mutual acceptance.”
berl, crown heights 10.08.05 - 8:50 pm #

... and while we are at it, let's also solve the following problems (listed in no particular order of importance):
1. Peace on Earth
2. The energy crisis
3. Migration of Mexican workers
4. Geriatric care crisis
berl, crown heights 10.08.05 - 9:17 pm #

And now for some final words of clarification:

[Berl was asked to] "please back up your assertion that my analysis is 'a bunch of hateful drivel' with some reasoning."

OK:

hateful – because reducing frum Jews to faceless creatures who merely “imitate their parents” and, by virtue of their birth, probably can’t “walk the walk” is dehumanizing and, therefore, hateful.

(as an aside, if your ancestors had opted to “imitate their parents”, and instead of “rebelling” had stuck to the derech Yisroel sovo, you too would be spared the pain of the BT experience. More importantly, we would all be spared the endless “... monologues” and “the BT dialogues”)

drivel – because your thesis leads to the inevitable conclusion that following in parents’ footsteps has an adverse “sociological” effect of turning a person into a lifeless zombie that is all “about static sameness and doing things out of habit and routine.”
(I leave the word bunch without explanation)

berl, crown heights 10.09.05 - 12:53 pm #

Thursday, June 29, 2006

SHIDDUCHIM FOR MIKUROVIM (PART 2 OF 3)

Originally Posted at mentalblog.com (Thread: Baaley Tshuva - worse than sephardim)

P A R T TWO (Continued from Wednesday):

Parents have the right and indeed and obligation to steer their children toward the kind of shidduch they feel will make their child happiest. Considerations of cultural compatibility are legitimate in this arena. Considerations of national / religious duty (as in "we must make the BT's feel welcomed, so let's introduce our Rochele to this nice BT guy") must not enter this picture.

None of this is in any way a contradiction to the precept of ahavas Yisroel, nor to the Chabad recruitment efforts.

Furthermore, drop the "false advertisement" idea. The new Chabad BTs have always been well aware that their chances of marrying born-and-bred Lubavitcher girls were slim to none. It was always one of the first questions raised by the interested college students at the pegishas in Crown Heights.

berl, crown heights 10.06.05 - 11:34 pm #

Which was questioned by Reb Tzemach Atlas:

I challenge you to find a mythological or historic precedent when a tribe invites new members to join and then forbids them to marry within the tribe. Find me an example.
Tzemach Atlas Homepage 10.06.05 - 11:42 pm #

Berl Responded:

I disagree with the notion of "forbids". That is not what I see around me. I maintain that the discrimination is real, but is 95% cultural, as is the case in every society with immigrants. It is tough to be a newcomer. Not for naught are we told that golus mechaperes.

berl, crown heights 10.06.05 - 11:51 pm #

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TA, I live "here". This is what I see - a BT community that functions in ways very reminiscent of ethnic immigrant communities. BTs socialize and marry mostly within the confines of their community. With some exceptions.

berl, crown heights 10.07.05 - 12:08 am #

3 TAMMUZ - CAN THERE BE ANOTHER LUBAVITCHER REBBE?


Originally posted at mentalblog.com (Thread: Living charismatic leader):

1…The Rebbe gave instructions that "after 120" people should turn to for guidance to "3 chassidishe rabbonim.” These instructions would not be necessary for chassidim who are supposed to choose a new Rebbe.

2. From "day one", the Rebbe said (I know [some] would like to say beoifen shel tefillo - but it is simply not the case) that this was the last generation (and by calling it shevii, he made it clear that the term generation was a reference to the nessiim) of golus...
The Rebbe thereby precluded the possibility of deir HaShmini coming onto the scene.

3. From "day one" the Rebbe referred to the Previous Rebbe as nasi doireinu - setting up a very clear & obvious example to follow post 3 Tammuz.
But I will agree [that] the Rebbe never said peh molei: “There shall be no other Rebbes onto you!”. However, the above mentioned are the most reasonable and obvious interpretations of his various hanhogois & statements. These interpretations are supported by the facts on the ground – the obvious absence of even remotely suitable “candidate”.

berl, crown heights 07.18.05 - 9:10 pm #

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…Look up the sicha containing instructions for "after 120..." (said during the shiva for the Rebbetzin). But perhaps more significantly, the way the Rebbe described his nessius from "day one" made it clear "this was it".

berl, crown heights 07.18.05 - 8:02 pm #
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The question is not whether a new Rebbe possible. The question is much deeper, it is really all about the core motivation. To borrow from the great Rogatchover: "did you come to the Rebbe to Leningrad or to Leningrad to the Rebbe? There are 16 nafka minos lehalocho between the two..."

Does a chossid need a Rebbe so that he can be a better Jew? Or does he need to be a better Jew so that he can be connected to the Rebbe? For most Lubavitchers it is the latter. It is very clear that from day one, the Rebbe himself saw his nessius as that of a chosem vesium. This continued to be so for the rest of the nessius. In that context, what is there to talk about ... ?

berl, crown heights 07.15.05 - 3:30 am #
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It is … a huge doichek to say that the momentous "after 120" sichoh was really just a directive for [a] "between the Rebbes" period.
If circumstances were such, that reality (in form of an obviously qualified "Rebbe candidate") was at odds with those obvious & simple interpretations, one could contemplate docheik-type interpretations.
But post 3 Tammuz, the obvious reality and the obvious interpretations are at peace with each other…

berl, crown heights 07.19.05 - 12:28 am #

Wednesday, June 28, 2006

CAN WE EMPHASIZE KIRUV AND NOT PROVIDE MARRIAGES FOR THE MIKUROVIM? (PART 1 OF 3)

Posted at mentalblog.com (Thread: Baaley Tshuva - worse than sephardim):

TA wrote: For Chabad to hold back their daughters from the full fledged Jews who joined their ranks upon their aggressive solicitations is dishonest and is a fatal spilling of blood.

This statement makes the preposterous seem reasonable.

1. Just because Jew A does Jew B a favor of reminding them of his inherent obligation to lead a Jewish life, does that mean that Jew B is now owed an additional favor of being able to marry Jew A's daughter?

2. Even if #1 were true, does said "daughter" have any say in deciding with whom she is to spend the rest of her life? Is she not entitled to choose someone with whom she shares a cultural bond? Or is the intensely private institution of marriage to be given over to public-policy makers? (as in “My daughter, just lie back and think of England!”)

3. Down with the constant BT whining about their "sacrifices"! Sacrifices of what? For whom? Who exactly had the most to gain here? Was it not the BT themselves, their ancestors and progeny?

4. Down with the constant BT wining about not being accepted! How hard does an average BT try to assimilate into the culture of the community they joined? I am not talking about a “beard and a hat” (see the Haaretz artice). I am talking language, cultural nuances, etc. I am talking about the kind of things every immigrant to a new society expects to have to do in order to gain acceptance.

Here is the real truth: too many BTs do not view frum people as human beings with the same emotional needs that human beings everywhere have (A reading of the Shylock’s monologue might be in order here). At the same time, for many BTs, their entire self image hinges on the “acceptance by the frum”. Would there be more “Z'ev Rosenberg” types that exhibit a healthy amount of independence and self-respect!

(Disclaimer: I am aware that the current cultural segregation of BTs in Lubavitch has origins on the aborigine side of the fence as well. I did not address it in this comment.)

berl, crown heights 10.06.05 - 10:10 pm #

ON THIS WE CAN AGREE: SHLICHUS SHOULD BE A NO SELF-AGGRANDIZING ZONE

Originally posted at mentalblog.com (Baaley Tshuva - worse than sephardim):

[A commenter] wrote: But aren't there also shluchim who enjoy talking to anyone who will listen all about their mesiras nefesh for the Rebbe's inyanim?...

I agree. Down with the constant self-aggrandizing of the shluchim and their nauseating self-proclaimed "sacrifices for the Rebbe"!

berl, crown heights 10.06.05 - 11:05 pm #

Tuesday, June 27, 2006

OF STONES AND MEN


Originally posted at mentalblog.com (The Big Boulder of Kurenitz):

I have a 'feeling' that the lifeless aveido zoroh boulders from 'reisen' zeinen duruchgeveiged mit chassidishe derheren in a sach tifere oifen vi di lebedike mentzen un fruen mit vemen du probirst tzu diskutiren do af dein barimter blog ;-).
berl, crown heights 11.02.05 - 7:23 pm #

(Editor: Which is not true for all stones:)



Yener steiner zainen kalt, on kein mutikeit. nit dos meint men!
berl, crown heights 11.02.05 - 7:32 pm #

(Editor: And for good measure:)

The Rebbe already paskened that Steinzalt is a bad name...
Tzemach Atlas Homepage 11.02.05 - 7:32 pm #

ah, dos is mitztzad dem "zaltz" - er is doch gebliben EVEN isroel! LOL
berl, crown heights 11.02.05 - 7:34 pm #

Friday, June 23, 2006

THE CAMPAIGN OF HATE

Posted at mentalblog.com / Thread: The Rogatchover :

… No doubt "party press" in every group tends to put the stress on themselves at the expense of others. This, unfortunately, comes with the territory. Lubavitch is no exception to this.

However, Lubavitch is singled out for a de facto boycott by all the major orthodox entities even when those pretend to be "inclusive".
Art Scroll is doch man dchar shmaihu, but even someone as eclectic as Rabbi Goldwasser, who has a story to tell you about every koton vegodol, never allows himself a “slip” about the Lubavitcher Rebbe! This, despite the fact that he shows up to speak in CH as a “friend”! He even felt compelled to edit out all mention of Lubavitch from a book about Motel Lifshitz! The examples of this attitude are endless!

All this amounts to a real campaign of hate against Lubavitcher chassidim. As a Lubavitcher living in 5766, I can tell you that I feel zero affinity with the orthodox community and care even less for its concerns. I suspect many feel the same way. Which is why all the complaints about sheluchim not cooperating with other orthodox organizations and using “undemocratic methods” of asserting their authority in, say, FSU and Europe fall on deaf ears. As well they should. The lack of cooperation in Europe did not precipitate this ubiquitous hate, but is merely a defense against it.

(Agav, in this climate, if any Lubavitcher were to cooperate with any orthodox entity to assert themselves vis-à-vis other Lubavitchers [as the proclamation against Asman alleges], I would turn against them in a heart beat and support such a proclamation, even if he is was really wronged.)

berl, crown heights 10.10.05 - 10:31 pm / Link: #

Thursday, June 22, 2006

LET'S START WITH MIN HAMIDABER, OK?

Posted at mentalblog.com / Thread: Modern Yeshiva – a Torah prohibition?

I have always wondered how is it, that the very same people who rally against any kabboloh learning by the "unprepared", encourage the pilpul system for young bachurim, ensuring that they leave the walls of the yeshiva ammei hooretz deoraisa, some not even full-fledged members of the min hamidaber (no having a single language they can express coherent thoughts in). That Lubavitch yeshivas copied that system in the main simply blows my mind! Ask any Rosh Yeshiva in Lubavitch what happened to following the method of learning Talmud outlined in kuntres eitz hachaim. A shoulder shrug will be the usual answer. Verabim hallolim hippilu.
berl, crown heights 07.17.05 - 12:31 pm / Link: #

And, from Better eat gefilte fish:

PLEASE STOP! No more "by us", "by them", "by him"! What language are you speaking, people? This is not English! It is MADDENING!!!!!!
berl, crown heights 07.24.05 - 10:58 pm / Link: #

Wednesday, June 21, 2006

SEFER HAZICHREINEIS: IT'S NOT A HISTORY BOOK

This post was a response to a commenter's criticism of the Rebbe Rayatz's sefer zichreineis and historical accounts:

At mentalblog.com (Thread: Modern Yeshiva – a Torah prohibition?) Yehuda writes: How could one repeat verbatim a conversation that occurred 200 years ago?

Do you really seriously think that such is the level of historic fidelity expected form any stories? Dialog accuracy? I guess all sippurei tzadikim are worthless-waste-of-time-bobe-maises, if judged by that standard.

berl, crown heights 07.18.05 - 5:27 pm #

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I was 16 when I read the Sefer Hazichreineis for the first time. Even at that age, I did not for a moment imagine that the dialog replicas were presented in the book as stenographer’s record. To hear this expectation from a grown man is just shocking! As to the genesis of the chassidus outlined in the book - it would be interesting to hear more specifics.
For instance, what specific historic claim made in the book is disputed? On what grounds? By whom?
Also remember, most of the book deals with the history of Beis HoRav and tells stories about various unknown "simple Jews". What do these subject have to do with the verifiable historic record?

berl, crown heights 07.18.05 - 7:07 pm #

BROTHER LEIBL, A”H


Some backround:

#1. The Rebbe Rayatz addresses Yisroel Arye Leib in a letter to him thusly:

B”H
17 Kislev 5708
Brooklyn

My friend, grandson of my great-uncle, my honored relative by marriage, the
great baal kishron, vosik v’chassid, man who fears G-d, Mr. Leib
sh’yichyeh,

#2. Some Chabad links:
http://www.chabad.org/dailystudy/HayomYom.asp?tDate=5/11/2006&Lang=
http://chabad.info/bm/index.php?magazine=ee_&status=goto_id&id=21

And now we come the point:

At mentalblog.com (Thread: rebbes-brother-yisroel-aryeh-leib), Tzemach Atlas wrote:

…here is a quote illustrating how Yisrael Aryeh Leib's life looks from the vantage point of an official Lubavitcher history hacker:http://www.chabadcenters.com/scr...?

The pious G-d fearing chasid, intelligent and understanding pleasant with good characteristics Yisrael Aryeh Leib was born in Nikolayev on 16 (?) Sivan, 5609. Stayed for a period of time in Leningrad, where the previous Rebbe showed him great fondness. The Chassidim, too, liked him and enjoyed barraging him with a variety of questions on Halacha, Chassidut etc. In 5690 (1930) he left the Soviet Union and settled in Berlin, later leaving for the Holy Land where he married. He spent his last years in Liverpool, England, passing away at an early age on 13 Iyar, 5712 (1952). By request of his brother the Rebbe, he was brought to the Holy Land and he was interred in the Holy city of Tzfàt.

:-(

Tzemach Atlas Homepage 08.10.05 - 2:08 pm #

Berl’s response:
This is too silly. Which part of this translation from the "Hayom Yom" do you object to? Is it the pro-forma barrage of titles that are similar to what goes on a "matzevah" of every Jew? Are you are looking for "the soul of the man" in a footnote to his brother's biography? Good luck.

Btw, the same link has this invitation in the intro:
"…if you have little-known biographical information about the Rebbe, please e-mail us at: editor@chabadonline.com"

Go for it.

P.S. chabad.org people are as far removed from “hacks” as anyone I ever met in my life. If you had any idea what these people were like, you’d not use such language about them.
berl, crown heights 08.10.05 - 2:31 pm #

A commenter took issue:
Instead of Yaakov struggling with angels we would have gotten an eunuch sitting at farbrengens.
And can you imagine Havatik HaChasid Esav?
rebeljew Homepage 08.10.05 - 3:35 pm #

Which Tzemach agreed with:
Good one, rebeljew. Ishmoel settled with Hagar in a desert, where Rebbe Avrohom "showed him great fondness."
Tzemach Atlas Homepage 08.10.05 - 3:41 pm #

Berl’s response:
TA & rebeljew,
I trust you can come with more variations on the same joke but I would rather see a more intellectually stimulating discussion.

The history of idealization of past heroes and villains is long. It goes back to the times of the Tannoim and Ammaroim (anyone remember how the Talmud deals with Dovid & Bathsheva story?). Certainly kabboloh & chassidus glowingly describes Eisav, Ishmael, Korach and many other Jewish "sinners" in Tanach as lofty souls - it "shows them great fondness" and calls them "vassikim & chassidim – aher kavonosom lesheim shomaim hoiso".

The real question is why is there this tendency in Torah itself and does it help a Jew in his "struggle to seek G-d"?
berl, crown heights 08.10.05 - 4:17 pm #

The real question is why is there this tendency in Torah itself and how does it help a Jew in his "struggle to seek G-d"?
berl, crown heights 08.10.05 - 4:19 pm #

TA wrote: I sneer at that. I have no problem admiring Dovid knowing what happened with Bat Shevah, etc.

[Berl:] Well, I would also not admire Dovid Hamelech any less without the Gemora admonishing us that kol mi sheoimer Dovid choto.... And I would also have no problem with the other multi-dimensional stuff you suggest, on the contrary - I would love it.

But: sneer all you want - that Gemora is there! The super-human description of the tzadik is there in Tanya kadisha, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

To me it is not all that interesting what you or I prefer. I would much prefer to understand what the Teiroh wants me to think when it gives me the "positive – perfect" (or as you say "embellished") side to all these people and events...
berl, crown heights 08.10.05 - 10:27 pm #

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

JOIN US!

[The idea that] that "all Jews need to be Lubavitchers" is, of course silly. But in this exaggeration there is some truth. Remember, the subject matter [being discussed] was whether Lubavitch (or the Rebbe) wants to recruit other Jews to be Lubavitchers or just to be frum.

My main point was, and remains still, that all the apologists - that say Lubavitch only wants to bring Jews closer to frumkeit - are wrong, both factually & morally. All Chabad Rebbes (starting with אדמו"ר הזקן ) were actively recruiting talented rabbinic youth*.

It was not the Rebbe that first said the נוסח התפילה של האר"י ז"ל was the שער הכולל. As to the Rebbe, I can show you a letter where he states that the ultimate goal of a sheliach is to make everything in his place of shelishus פונקט אזיי ווי עס איז געווען אין ליובאוויטש.

The point – this is the שיטה. And none of this has anything to do with increasing the numbers of "our fold" but is a quest that is rooted in a deep spiritual desire to accomplish הפצת המעיינות של תורת הבעל שם טוב – תורתו של משיח.

Having said this, I understand that this שיטה might make some people uneasy. But that does not change it. Somehow, though, I do not think the Rebbes wanted to uproot that "gorgeous mosaic" (been reading Mayor Dinkins’ old speeches lately? ;-) ) and certainly not the plurality of Jewish approaches to learning.

* Note: regarding this point I refer you to some piquant correspondence between the Previous Rebbe & Zalman Gourary published recently by Berel Levin.

berl, crown heights 05.17.05 - 10:43 am Link: #

Posted at mentalblog.com / Thread: The Satmarer challenge

Monday, June 19, 2006

FREEDOM THEN & NOW; IT'S ALL IN THE DEFINITION

The usage of the word 'frei' to describe Jews that are not observant goes back to this comment of mine.

‘Youths’ then were saying the same things [as others are] today (identical, actually), and called themselves 'frei' - they threw off the shackles of the ‘suffocating and oppressive shtetl mentality' and freed themselves from the religion that came with that package.
Those that remained 'frum', scoffed at the 'so called frei' or 'frei' for short. And that’s how ‘frei’ became the word ‘frei’ we all know and love (to use). But in terms of the concept, of course... a Jew respects the concept of freedom, but has a definition of it that is not in accord with the ideals of the Age of Enlightenment. A Jew believes instead that ein lecho bein choirin elo me sheoisek baTeiroh.
berl, crown heights 11.16.05 - 12:00 pm #

'Freedom' as a western sensibility is covered by another maamar chaza'l: "avdo behefkeiro nicho leih".
berl, crown heights 11.16.05 - 12:14 pm #

SWFI: It was not my intention to moralize in any way - lo bosi elo leforeish peshuto shel milo. I was only answering a language question. Period. No hidden agendas (or is it agendae?).
berl, crown heights 11.16.05 - 12:20 pm #

Posted at mentalblog.com / Thread: The Lyricist Sholom Keller

Friday, June 16, 2006

THE UNHEEDED CRY: DO YOU HEAR ME SCHNEUR?!"

Today's posting is really not much of a commentary on anything, other than the many unanswered requests (I only have some of them here. There were more (I think 6 in total), but you'll get the point) by Berl in search of material. Any help in the cause is appreciated...

It all started with a comment at mentalblog.com by "Schneur:"

...Rabbi Michel Ber Weismandel was full of criticism of these people including Rabbi Abraham Kalmanowitz. I won't bother to tell you what Reb Michel Ber wanted to do to Rabbi Kalmanowitz in NY when he came here after the war. Yet Reb Michel Baer was a good friend of the Mahaaryatz in America. Check out the biography of the late Burshtiner rebbe rav Eichenstein(written by his son the current rebbe shlita) for some choice morsels of criticism against the vaad and their rescue activities...
Schneur 03.24.05 - 1:03 pm #

Followed by:

Schneur,
Can you please write were can one get "the biography of the late Burshtiner Rebbe Rav Eichenstein"? What is the actual name of the book? Also, when you fill better (G-d willing soon), can you please post more about Rabbi Michel Ber Weismandel and his take on the Vaad Hatzoloh efforts. I have read much about him, all "artscrolled", though, and never anything along the lines of your report. Thank you.
berl, crown heights 03.24.05 - 1:21 pm #

And Schneur responded:

Berl,
The chevra of Artscroll get an anxiety attack when the word Lubavitch is mentioned. They also have a homoginized hashkafa approved by the "gedolim"...
Reb Michel Ber was not a friend of these people. Very little was ever printed on this and I depend on my sources in the CHAGAS community for this data. I will get you the name of the sefer (I have it at home too) and I will be glad to copy the pages that are shayech to our inyan...

Schneur 03.24.05 - 2:08 pm #

A couple months later:


Schneur,Did you forget your promise to post about the biography of the late Burshtiner Rebbe Rav Eichenstein and Rabbi Michel Ber Weismandel's take on the Vaad Hatzoloh efforts?
berl, crown heights 05.12.05 - 6:42 pm #

And again:

Schneur, ???
http://www.haloscan.com/comments...66426019/
berl, crown heights 05.16.05 - 3:50 pm #

And...

And once again (though I beginning to sound like a pest):
Did you forget your promise to post about the biography of the late Burshtiner Rebbe Rav Eichenstein and Rabbi Michel Ber Weismandel's take on the Vaad Hatzoloh efforts?
berl, crown heights 05.17.05 - 11:09 am #

Thursday, June 15, 2006

SATIRE 101

Originally posted at mentalblog.com / Thread: Chasid Bobuv B'nusach Chabad

We begin with the following comment posted by “Faruq”:

…I know a rov in Flatbush, a real talmid chochom (exclusively in positive connotation), very accessible, yet deep personality, with a sense of humor etc. in short, a pleasure to be around. The guy knows next to nothing about Chabad. However, what little he does know comes from B. Shemtov. The rov was raised in England and his father, a prominent talmid Ch. himself, used to daven in Shemtov’s shul in England. The rov’s attitude towards Lubavitch is that of scorn and disdain. When provoked to share his feelings re: Chabad, he would say “he drank and yelled and screamed at my father’s face that whoever doesn’t know Tania is an am-hooretz.” and he would wave his hand in dismissal.

faruq 07.29.05 - 8:49 am #


Berl responded:

faruq,

I know this businessman from North Carolina, who is a very rich man (I mean this exclusively in a positive sense). He is generous to a fault. Despite his wealth, he is very accessible and has a great sense of humor. In short - a pleasure to be around! Now, this guy knows next to nothing about the Jews. What little he does know, comes from a man by the name of Ben Samuelson – an inn kipper from Charleston. You see, my acquaintance was raised in Atlanta, and his father, himself a prominent businessman, used to take the boy along on his frequent business trips to Charleston. The pair used to stay in Ben’s Inn.

I do not know all that had transpired during those stays, but even today the man’s attitude towards the Jews is that of scorn and disdain.

I once provoked him to explain his feelings, the otherwise calm and genteel businessman from North Carolina started foaming at his mouth and furiously exclaimed: “that Jew Ben drank himself silly and then yelled and screamed in my father’s face that only the Jews have enough brains to make money.” And then he calmed down and simply waved his hand in a gesture of dismissal.

berl, crown heights 07.29.05 - 9:39 am #


And, just for the record, this was the response:

berl, I admire you
faruq 07.29.05 - 9:46 am #

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Note: A special thanks is extended to an unnamed individual who helped me locate this post. Honestly, in my opinion, for this post alone the Berl Yeimi was worthwhile.

Wednesday, June 14, 2006

MY REBBE IS...

Praising the Rebbe for being “a great scientist” seems understandable when you are engaged in propaganda (at times I have done so myself, and will do it again in a flash!), but for a chossid to seriously pin their attachment to the Rebbe on this idea is really depressing and misses the whole point of what a Rebbe is.

Even saying something that is not disputable, like “The Rebbe is a great talmid chochom” is not something a Chabad chossid should stoop to.

berl, crown heights 03.23.05 - 3:44 pm Link: #

Posted at mentalblog.com / Thread: Email interview with Dr. Bryan Mark Rigg

Tuesday, June 13, 2006

ON A LIGHTER NOTE: DEM YANKELS

Posted at mentalblog, ("mendy-says") In response to the mendelblog.com post -- and a picture of Mendel in his Red Sox regalia:

Es tut vei zen an yidish kind mit der redsox kasket... go yankees!
berl, crown heights 06.19.05 - 6:52 pm #
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The Yankees are a yiddishe team, they play for New York (yir ahser yad Yisroel tekifa boi). Red Sox, on the other hand, is the ultimate goyisher team :-)
berl, crown heights 06.19.05 - 11:23 pm #
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And The Dodgers are meshummodim! :-)
berl, crown heights 06.19.05 - 11:29 pm #
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:-)

COMPETITION IN CHINUCH: NECESSARY & NATURAL (AND IT'S YOUR RESPONSIBILITY)

Posted at mentalblog.com / Thread: Australian Chabad ablaze in truth:

[A commenter wrote:] "It's easy for them to squash a school when those supporting it are only naive yungerlite with nothing but temimus and chasidishkeit behind them."

I would caution against idealizing one side while vilifying the other. This is usually not representative of reality. What is important to remember is that even the best of people will stagnate without competition. Such is the nature of man by Divine design. Ukvar omru kadmoneinu: kinnas sofrim tarbeh hochmah.

berl, crown heights 07.12.05 - 11:56 am #

And this one (thread: Glasnost rolls on):

Competition in chinnuch is necessary, natural, and is not an act of war against anyone! That some may react to a new competing school negatively is their own problem. Need I remind anyone that OT itself started precisely that way by Rabbi Michoel Teitelbaum A”H?
At the end of the day, it is the responsibility of every parent to give their children the proper chinnuch (and it is not good enough to say "I gave them the best of the available").
At times I did consider starting a small cheder for my kids with like-minded parents.
Through trial-and-error I concluded that as of now in CH (this very time/place specific) the best approach is to place one’s kids “within the system” and augment at home (and augment a LOT!). I do not wish to go into the specifics behind this view and understand that in many places that is not an option at all. There, parents MUST AT ALL COSTS create alternatives for their kids!This is not an issue of “law-and order”. It is an issue of real existential weight.

berl, crown heights 07.13.05 - 12:34 am #


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